Why do we need patience?
I have asked this question several times and came up with several answers. Well, basically I learn from nature and how nature itself is patient. The easiest example I see is a spider. There are quite a lot of spiders in my bicycle hut in the backyard of my house and what I awe from those spiders is their patience in building their webs. They start building it line by line until it is finished, they keep on doing the building although it rains… Even if it gets destroyed by humans like me or animals, they keep on doing it until it is finished. Wow, what a patience and perseverance.
Another example is a caterpillar, it is first ugly, eating and destroying plants and after a certain age they start to sleep in their pupa form. Their patience can be seen in waiting inside their pupa and in the process of emerging from their cocoon. Imagine if the caterpillar does not want to wait until it is fully formed and goes out before its time, it won’t become a beautiful butterfly.
If animals need patience to build their nests and transform into something beautiful, shouldn’t we learn from them and be patient also?
Sadly patience is something which is not that appreciated nowadays. People are now spamed with instance things, things which makes their life easier and faster. Faster laptop, faster internet connection, faster process, faster this and that. I somehow feel it myself, if I want to buy something online, I want to have it at least the next day, it would be better if it was delivered yesterday! Or if I tell someone to change their mind for their own sake, I want him/her to change at the exact moment I tell him/her.
Life is just not designed to run fast, everything has its process, everything has its time.It is the same also if we start a business. We would need a lot of patience in every phase of it. We can’t just do it in a hurry. It needs research, planning, strategy and implementation. Sometimes we get the results right away, sometimes we have to have patience until the result comes out.
In the end I believe that patience is needed to be successful. Through any trouble or struggle or challenge we are facing, we would need patience to persevere! Don’t ask too many why’s, as it sometimes hindesr us from seeing a way out and makes us focus not on the way out but on the trouble or struggle or challenge itself.
The thing that pleases God is our patient attitude—not our suffering. http://om.ly/qnHm